long entry lor…
lately i have not inspired to pen down my tots… there were many things that happened but my mind was just not spurred to do anything abt it.
however these days, it seemed different. bit by bit, the urge to type the tots out became quite an urge.
like i mentioned, there were many things that happened, but i shall only mention in excerpts of those i deem fit to be penned down.
so pls, my apologies should this entry be long and boring and useless. u can choose to click on the X button on the top right hand corner of the page if u dun want to proceed.
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i came across an entry by Kak Ju, about needs and wants. i have always been taught that you always prioritise your needs before your wants. after all, your wants ARE secondary. u can still live without them. and u can always get them when you have the excess cash etc.
i do come across pple who prioritise the opposite. well, there ARE ALOT of these pple out there actually.
for example, you just got married and you NEED to settle down with your spouse. you NEED to work out your financials as a famili, you NEED to prioritise your activities etc.
along the way of planning, you may WANT to get a car for the famili’s convenience. then you may WANT to go on holidays just like how it was before you got married.
then in the midst of it all, you become excited and change the WANT to a NEED. you prioritise your WANT list first than your NEED list.
sumtimes i dun blame these pple. there are times, where you have the extra cash or REZEKI LEBIH to afford the WANTs, i.e. a car for example.
BUT what i dun understand is when these pple get the WANT i.e. a car just becos ‘Oh dektu dah ada kereta ah! senang kan dorang? yok kita belik kereta gak. paling murah pun takpe ah, janji ada kereta’
tsk tsk tsk…
bak cerita P. RAmlee ‘jiran ada TV besar, dia pun mau TV besar’ [umwer along that line lah hor]
after spending so much on a car or any other items so to speak, they get bogged down with… LOANS! loans for this and that and those and these etc…
then when bogged down, these pple start blaming… blaming each other for wanting a car when they know that it can wait.
well.. after all, to point a finger at someone is always better than taking the blame for some pple.
for these kinda pple out there, i pray for you. i pray for your happiness and well being of your famili so that you can work extra hard and pay off those loans.
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i once mistook a late-30s adult’s writings for a 20-plus adult’s.
do u find it an insult? or a compliment?
looking at the positive point, i find it a compliment for the younger adult, as her writing was seen as matured, matured enuf to pass off as a 30-plos yr old adult.
and of cos, very sad for the older adult. such a shame that the writings can be mistaken as a younger adult’s. such childishness… such lame expressions of the mind.
thank God it is in the blogsphere. if it was in the papers or sumting, then its really a shame that the publication company will actually hire such a person.
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talking about the blogshere.
the cyber world has always been a nasty place to be part of. especially when in comes to chatting i.e. MIRC era to the current blogging era.
nobody knows who you are. NOBODY. even tho u put up pics etc, NOBODY knows who you really are.
in blogs, you can be talking abt some dream world or fairytale that you have always dreamt about. you can always photoshop your pics to make yourself slimmer and prettier than what you already are.
and of cos, you scrutinize what you want to type and tell to the public.
not forgetting the best part, you can even create a name for yourself, sumting that you find cool and nice, but was never given to you. in short, hiding your identity.
recently i stumbled across a blog. damn hilarious. it was created just for the reason to put some bloggers to shame - more to the likes to Hate-Blog.
i do pity the victims tho. they were criticised right to the bone, just for being ‘themselves’ in the cyber world.
on another note, its damn hilarious to see there are actually pple who dedicate their time to create this hate blog etc. even to the extent of digging up old history of the person they hate and hanging the victims’ dirty laundry in the public.
oh well.. u cant avoid such nitty gritty things in life, cant u? hehehe..
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all in all, life still have to go on.
u still got to work to earn money to support your famili and u have to be patient in life as the many many ordeals come by in your way.
what’s most important is to just keep your trap shut and enjoy the dramas… =)
