marah
the other day i was watching this malaysisan dokumentari km/j…
mostly showcasing road accidents, deaths due to accidents and all…
in this particular episode, ada satu part that sumhow got drilled in my head..
this guy said..
slalunyer perasan marah itu panjangnyer slama 4 minit saja.. selepas 4 minit, dah patut reda..
tapi kalau masih marah lagi, itu bukan dipanggil perasan marah…
itu kita namakan DENDAM.
imagine driving with full of angst and hatred.. damn dangerous.
i have driven once in that condition, thou it wasnt that bad lah.. it was more angry…
during that time, ur mind has nothing but thinking of what had mmade u angry.
just by thinking abt it, it made u angrier.
slowly u lose concentration on the road and this is when accidents often hapen.
Alhamdulillah, i was aware of the state of my mind and was able to control the angst well. i guess music from the radio in the car helped along in that as well.
i tink i have mentioned about this before, when you are angry, it is best to keep quiet and cool off first before doing anything else.
it is afterall for the best of yourself and the people who loves you…
remember, if you dun love yourself, there’s always others who do.